On my mom’s passing – losing both parents to Alzheimer’s

On Wednesday, October 16, 2024, we lost our mom, Joan Reed, she was 80 years old. Like my dad, she had dementia, but not nearly as advanced. We moved her to North Carolina in August to be near my sister, Christine. Her Alzheimer’s Journey was very different than...
6 months after our Alzheimer’s Journey ended…

6 months after our Alzheimer’s Journey ended…

6 months ago today my family spent the day at my dad’s bedside… We held his hand. We talked to him. We told him what an amazing husband, dad and grandfather he was… We told him it was ok to let go. That we would be ok. That we’d take care of...
The Aftermath of Alzheimer’s…

The Aftermath of Alzheimer’s…

One day, it is over. No more care choices to make, no more changes to adjust to, no more grieving the living while doing your best to stay connected at the same time. No more wondering how long the journey will last, how and when it will end. One day, your loved one...
When a parent has dementia or Alzheimers

When a parent has dementia or Alzheimers

Life gets turned on it’s head. (That’s the simplified version of what happens!) Life before dementia seems like a distant memory. It comes on like a subtle fog – barely perceptible until you are engulfed and can’t see two feet in front of you....
I Remember When…

I Remember When…

As my dad has entered the final stages of dementia my family has had more “I remember when…” conversations. As his memory and abilities fade, we are looking back on this Alzheimer’s journey and remembering both the struggles and the silver...